"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Help with problem I am having

synergy1

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So I started dating a hb 5 single mom who is 38 about 2 months ago before moving in with her just after the husband moved out. I basically signed the mortgage ( or some other agreement) stating I would pay for my portion of the house but claim no ownership as well as support the 7 children she has. No problems so far.

The issue I found out was that we work together. I am a cashier at macdonalds ,and she is my manager, LOL.

So this weekend I am driving my ford pinto to new york to buy an 8 ball, and am texting her back and forth for the entire 8 hour drive and something irked me. Here is the conversation

me: So I am going to be a couple bucks short this week for the mortgage, can you spot me 10 bucks so I can register my car?
her: No, I spent it on drinks for this photographer who is taking me to an S&M date
me: how disrespectful, I thought you were different.
her: BBL, I think hes showing up

SS, what do I do here? I can't tell if shes not interested or is just playing games. Do I ignore her and hope she doesnt fvck this S&M photographer. She is different and loves me for who I am. I know this because I always buy her fake diamond jewlery Thursday night after my double in the hamburger department ends.

Another issue is that I think I have an STD. I never bothered to use protection since condoms are too expensive. Im beginning to worry. I know it wasn't me since I never had sex before and I wanted to save it for the 'one'. Now every time I pee, its blood and I have headaches, but this women is different so I can't blame her.

oh yeah and i think one of her kids is stealing from me when im not looking. I am paranoid of the banking system and have always kept cash hidden under my bed. I suspect a thief because I can buy less even with the same amount of cash these days..

I need help! point me in the right direction!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stop, drop and roll.

dude.

NEXT NOW!!!
 

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You should buy her flowers.

Trolling attempt! FAIL!
 

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I was going to bring her flowers and some KFC for diner, but she said that she needed some alone time that night so I had to sleep at a hotel that night. I am noticing the sex is cutting down. Back during our honeymoon phase 3 weeks ago, I was getting laid once a week. Now she is too busy with the kids and with shopping to do it. I try and be nice by looking after the 1 year old while she spends the night on business trips, but that still doesn't promise i'll get any when she returns.

I think I should propose to her and see if it changes everything. I love her because she understands my human condition and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. All I need to do is make her lose 100 lbs, have sex with me, and respect me and my life will be totally better.
 

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I See Trollz I See Trolls
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quality9.99 said:
Wow...is this how u spend your all your nights?
nah, but soon it'll be on top of a pile of money w/ many beautiful women.

I guess the spin off of this was that we should be thankful for what we have because people out there have it so much worse. One could view this in a positive light as its 'obvious' that no one could be this stupid, but I bet on other forums people might have actually helped.
 

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highconscienceness said:
Why not fvck her underage daughter?
She's busy with med school applications. Already got into BU, but is waiting to hear from Harvard.
 
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