"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've been talking to this girl for 3 months she gave me her number the first day I started talking to her. She always stairs at me with a glare in her face when I enter this class we both have. She also now and then comes and sits w me and my friends at our table
Last week I grew some balls and told her that if we could ever have something more then just a friend relationship she said that for now she rather be single cuz she is trying to forget her ex. They broke up somewhere around February of 2017 I heard that she is really upsest w him. So much that he had to block her from every social media account. But she promised me that I wasn't in the friend zone and that if we were still in contact in the future we can make things work.i heard she is still trying to get back w her ex but her ex is annoyed now wut should I do now I'm so confused HELP. Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like mixed signals to me. Put her on the back burner and go out and meet other girls. She may start chasing you, at that point. Could also be an AW. (attention wh0re)
 

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Sounds like mixed signals to me. Put her on the back burner and go out and meet other girls. She may start chasing you, at that point. Could also be an AW. (attention wh0re)
Wut do you mean w mixed feelings thanks
 

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Wut do you mean w mixed feelings thanks
She's showing interest, but not over her boyfriend...your job is to help her get over him by being awesome, and making yourself scarce.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've been talking to this girl for 3 months she gave me her number the first day I started talking to her. She always stairs at me with a glare in her face when I enter this class we both have. She also now and then comes and sits w me and my friends at our table
Last week I grew some balls and told her that if we could ever have something more then just a friend relationship she said that for now she rather be single cuz she is trying to forget her ex. They broke up somewhere around February of 2017 I heard that she is really upsest w him. So much that he had to block her from every social media account. But she promised me that I wasn't in the friend zone and that if we were still in contact in the future we can make things work.i heard she is still trying to get back w her ex but her ex is annoyed now wut should I do now I'm so confused HELP. Thanks
Next.

I would rather be single because of
......what ever the reason, she is still saying no.

She even told you that you can even be her plan b if you wait like a loyal patient dog, waiting for her to finish chasing another guy trying to forget about the said ex she is still carrying a torch for.

The fact that her ex has blocked her on every avenue is actually a blessing in disguise for you. Red flag alert. Take the warning and move on unscathed.

Next this one. You are either plan a and she is honored to be with you or next.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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