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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axelsmasher

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I've been talking to this girl for 3 months she gave me her number the first day I started talking to her. She always stairs at me with a glare in her face when I enter this class we both have. She also now and then comes and sits w me and my friends at our table
Last week I grew some balls and told her that if we could ever have something more then just a friend relationship she said that for now she rather be single cuz she is trying to forget her ex. They broke up somewhere around February of 2017 I heard that she is really upsest w him. So much that he had to block her from every social media account. But she promised me that I wasn't in the friend zone and that if we were still in contact in the future we can make things work.i heard she is still trying to get back w her ex but her ex is annoyed now wut should I do now I'm so confused HELP. Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like mixed signals to me. Put her on the back burner and go out and meet other girls. She may start chasing you, at that point. Could also be an AW. (attention wh0re)
 

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Sounds like mixed signals to me. Put her on the back burner and go out and meet other girls. She may start chasing you, at that point. Could also be an AW. (attention wh0re)
Wut do you mean w mixed feelings thanks
 

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Wut do you mean w mixed feelings thanks
She's showing interest, but not over her boyfriend...your job is to help her get over him by being awesome, and making yourself scarce.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've been talking to this girl for 3 months she gave me her number the first day I started talking to her. She always stairs at me with a glare in her face when I enter this class we both have. She also now and then comes and sits w me and my friends at our table
Last week I grew some balls and told her that if we could ever have something more then just a friend relationship she said that for now she rather be single cuz she is trying to forget her ex. They broke up somewhere around February of 2017 I heard that she is really upsest w him. So much that he had to block her from every social media account. But she promised me that I wasn't in the friend zone and that if we were still in contact in the future we can make things work.i heard she is still trying to get back w her ex but her ex is annoyed now wut should I do now I'm so confused HELP. Thanks
Next.

I would rather be single because of
......what ever the reason, she is still saying no.

She even told you that you can even be her plan b if you wait like a loyal patient dog, waiting for her to finish chasing another guy trying to forget about the said ex she is still carrying a torch for.

The fact that her ex has blocked her on every avenue is actually a blessing in disguise for you. Red flag alert. Take the warning and move on unscathed.

Next this one. You are either plan a and she is honored to be with you or next.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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