"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been talking to this girl for 3 months she gave me her number the first day I started talking to her. She always stairs at me with a glare in her face when I enter this class we both have. She also now and then comes and sits w me and my friends at our table
Last week I grew some balls and told her that if we could ever have something more then just a friend relationship she said that for now she rather be single cuz she is trying to forget her ex. They broke up somewhere around February of 2017 I heard that she is really upsest w him. So much that he had to block her from every social media account. But she promised me that I wasn't in the friend zone and that if we were still in contact in the future we can make things work.i heard she is still trying to get back w her ex but her ex is annoyed now wut should I do now I'm so confused HELP. Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like mixed signals to me. Put her on the back burner and go out and meet other girls. She may start chasing you, at that point. Could also be an AW. (attention wh0re)
 

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Sounds like mixed signals to me. Put her on the back burner and go out and meet other girls. She may start chasing you, at that point. Could also be an AW. (attention wh0re)
Wut do you mean w mixed feelings thanks
 

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Wut do you mean w mixed feelings thanks
She's showing interest, but not over her boyfriend...your job is to help her get over him by being awesome, and making yourself scarce.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've been talking to this girl for 3 months she gave me her number the first day I started talking to her. She always stairs at me with a glare in her face when I enter this class we both have. She also now and then comes and sits w me and my friends at our table
Last week I grew some balls and told her that if we could ever have something more then just a friend relationship she said that for now she rather be single cuz she is trying to forget her ex. They broke up somewhere around February of 2017 I heard that she is really upsest w him. So much that he had to block her from every social media account. But she promised me that I wasn't in the friend zone and that if we were still in contact in the future we can make things work.i heard she is still trying to get back w her ex but her ex is annoyed now wut should I do now I'm so confused HELP. Thanks
Next.

I would rather be single because of
......what ever the reason, she is still saying no.

She even told you that you can even be her plan b if you wait like a loyal patient dog, waiting for her to finish chasing another guy trying to forget about the said ex she is still carrying a torch for.

The fact that her ex has blocked her on every avenue is actually a blessing in disguise for you. Red flag alert. Take the warning and move on unscathed.

Next this one. You are either plan a and she is honored to be with you or next.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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