"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Help with moving to a new city

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-moved to a new city
-met hot chick first day I moved out here, got attached and spent the night everyday at her house because the sex was good and she cooked so why not?
-realized I could get hotter chicks out here and she wanted a relationship so I ghosted her, she fell apart. I blocked her on everything and dated other girls
-after she ran into me 2-3 times, I decided to give it another shot as we talked for a week.... but she couldn’t get over me leaving her and was just a ***** so I said **** it I’m out.

I currently am talking to a couple of chicks hotter than her, but still find myself missing her. Can’t tell if I actually miss her or just am dealing with the same things everyone deals with when they move to a new City. Maybe the pace of moving from a big city to a small one is ****ing with me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-moved to a new city
-met hot chick first day I moved out here, got attached and spent the night everyday at her house because the sex was good and she cooked so why not?
-realized I could get hotter chicks out here and she wanted a relationship so I ghosted her, she fell apart. I blocked her on everything and dated other girls
-after she ran into me 2-3 times, I decided to give it another shot as we talked for a week.... but she couldn’t get over me leaving her and was just a ***** so I said **** it I’m out.

I currently am talking to a couple of chicks hotter than her, but still find myself missing her. Can’t tell if I actually miss her or just am dealing with the same things everyone deals with when they move to a new City. Maybe the pace of moving from a big city to a small one is ****ing with me.
Fvcked her?
 

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Fvcked her?
****ed her many times. I ghosted her after 3 weeks for other ***** for about a 2 week period. She tried hard to come back to me multiple times so I gave it another shot...but she just ended up punishing me for ghosting her and it ended Up in a disaster.
 

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****ed her many times. I ghosted her after 3 weeks for other ***** for about a 2 week period. She tried hard to come back to me multiple times so I gave it another shot...but she just ended up punishing me for ghosting her and it ended Up in a disaster.
LOL this is what you're not supposed to do, ghosting is for chick's who don't put out, not chick's that do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your reputation is shot now too, she'll be talking mad disrespect on you, bad way to start a new city bud lol but learn from it.
 

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****ed her many times. I ghosted her after 3 weeks for other ***** for about a 2 week period. She tried hard to come back to me multiple times so I gave it another shot...but she just ended up punishing me for ghosting her and it ended Up in a disaster.
If you didn't have other girls to take the slack you should've kept fvcking her. I did that before and the short mindedness caused a 6 month drought. After the pvssy was gone I realized she was great company. And the sex wasn't the very best but it was very good.
 

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LOL this is what you're not supposed to do, ghosting is for chick's who don't put out, not chick's that do.
how is this not beta as ****? Basically a guy who is So unsure of himself to get ***** that he settles with a chick hes not crazy about, when he can be out finding a girl he is into. It’s too much work to juggle 3-4 plates man. They all catch you In the end.

im sure everyone has been in a situation where you enjoy a woman’s company, and have feelings for her, but you don’t wanna commit. And when you don’t commit she hates you and it’s game over.
 

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how is this not beta as ****? Basically a guy who is So unsure of himself to get ***** that he settles with a chick hes not crazy about, when he can be out finding a girl he is into. It’s too much work to juggle 3-4 plates man. They all catch you In the end.

im sure everyone has been in a situation where you enjoy a woman’s company, and have feelings for her, but you don’t wanna commit. And when you don’t commit she hates you and it’s game over.
You should have kept fvcking her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how is this not beta as ****? Basically a guy who is So unsure of himself to get ***** that he settles with a chick hes not crazy about, when he can be out finding a girl he is into. It’s too much work to juggle 3-4 plates man. They all catch you In the end.

im sure everyone has been in a situation where you enjoy a woman’s company, and have feelings for her, but you don’t wanna commit. And when you don’t commit she hates you and it’s game over.
I see you are unfamiliar with plate theory
 

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Plenty of people will be panicking and hurrying the fvck up attempting to leave cities in a few more days.
 

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Ran into my ex again tonight...walked by said a friendly hello and she walks right by me Completely ignoring me...and her friend curses me out saying I needed to leave.

did I mention she still stalks my ig stories with her fake account? I admit I was a piece of **** for what I did to her but damn getover it and be cool
 
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