"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Help with moving to a new city

captain55

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-moved to a new city
-met hot chick first day I moved out here, got attached and spent the night everyday at her house because the sex was good and she cooked so why not?
-realized I could get hotter chicks out here and she wanted a relationship so I ghosted her, she fell apart. I blocked her on everything and dated other girls
-after she ran into me 2-3 times, I decided to give it another shot as we talked for a week.... but she couldn’t get over me leaving her and was just a ***** so I said **** it I’m out.

I currently am talking to a couple of chicks hotter than her, but still find myself missing her. Can’t tell if I actually miss her or just am dealing with the same things everyone deals with when they move to a new City. Maybe the pace of moving from a big city to a small one is ****ing with me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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-moved to a new city
-met hot chick first day I moved out here, got attached and spent the night everyday at her house because the sex was good and she cooked so why not?
-realized I could get hotter chicks out here and she wanted a relationship so I ghosted her, she fell apart. I blocked her on everything and dated other girls
-after she ran into me 2-3 times, I decided to give it another shot as we talked for a week.... but she couldn’t get over me leaving her and was just a ***** so I said **** it I’m out.

I currently am talking to a couple of chicks hotter than her, but still find myself missing her. Can’t tell if I actually miss her or just am dealing with the same things everyone deals with when they move to a new City. Maybe the pace of moving from a big city to a small one is ****ing with me.
Fvcked her?
 

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Fvcked her?
****ed her many times. I ghosted her after 3 weeks for other ***** for about a 2 week period. She tried hard to come back to me multiple times so I gave it another shot...but she just ended up punishing me for ghosting her and it ended Up in a disaster.
 

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****ed her many times. I ghosted her after 3 weeks for other ***** for about a 2 week period. She tried hard to come back to me multiple times so I gave it another shot...but she just ended up punishing me for ghosting her and it ended Up in a disaster.
LOL this is what you're not supposed to do, ghosting is for chick's who don't put out, not chick's that do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your reputation is shot now too, she'll be talking mad disrespect on you, bad way to start a new city bud lol but learn from it.
 

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****ed her many times. I ghosted her after 3 weeks for other ***** for about a 2 week period. She tried hard to come back to me multiple times so I gave it another shot...but she just ended up punishing me for ghosting her and it ended Up in a disaster.
If you didn't have other girls to take the slack you should've kept fvcking her. I did that before and the short mindedness caused a 6 month drought. After the pvssy was gone I realized she was great company. And the sex wasn't the very best but it was very good.
 

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LOL this is what you're not supposed to do, ghosting is for chick's who don't put out, not chick's that do.
how is this not beta as ****? Basically a guy who is So unsure of himself to get ***** that he settles with a chick hes not crazy about, when he can be out finding a girl he is into. It’s too much work to juggle 3-4 plates man. They all catch you In the end.

im sure everyone has been in a situation where you enjoy a woman’s company, and have feelings for her, but you don’t wanna commit. And when you don’t commit she hates you and it’s game over.
 

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how is this not beta as ****? Basically a guy who is So unsure of himself to get ***** that he settles with a chick hes not crazy about, when he can be out finding a girl he is into. It’s too much work to juggle 3-4 plates man. They all catch you In the end.

im sure everyone has been in a situation where you enjoy a woman’s company, and have feelings for her, but you don’t wanna commit. And when you don’t commit she hates you and it’s game over.
You should have kept fvcking her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how is this not beta as ****? Basically a guy who is So unsure of himself to get ***** that he settles with a chick hes not crazy about, when he can be out finding a girl he is into. It’s too much work to juggle 3-4 plates man. They all catch you In the end.

im sure everyone has been in a situation where you enjoy a woman’s company, and have feelings for her, but you don’t wanna commit. And when you don’t commit she hates you and it’s game over.
I see you are unfamiliar with plate theory
 

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Plenty of people will be panicking and hurrying the fvck up attempting to leave cities in a few more days.
 

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Ran into my ex again tonight...walked by said a friendly hello and she walks right by me Completely ignoring me...and her friend curses me out saying I needed to leave.

did I mention she still stalks my ig stories with her fake account? I admit I was a piece of **** for what I did to her but damn getover it and be cool
 
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