"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Help with Email. How should I respond to this one.

wrasse

New Member
Joined
Jun 3, 2004
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Did the online thing and this is the 2nd email from her. (HB7-8 in unversity) after I asked what she'll do after finishing her MA.

Well you seem really nice. I haven't decided where I will be going after my MA. I am in my second year of a three year program, so I have a while to make some decisions and visit a few places.

So what is your life like? Honestly, I don't remember reading your profile so tell me about yourself. Besides, it's more fun hearing it from you anyway. :)

Have a good day!

Ttyl,


WTF? Not remember my profile? This seems like a game to me.

Thinking about just coming back and say "check it and call me" but looking for the smoothest don juan response.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Originally posted by wrasse
...
WTF? Not remember my profile? This seems like a game to me.

Thinking about just coming back and say "check it and call me" but looking for the smoothest don juan response.
My gut says it a game. I'd go "Chappelle" on her profile. She wants funny, I'd give it to her BIG TIME. Nothing mean, just enough to let her know that she should read a guy's profile next time. Plus, if she doesn't get pissed off, it would be a good sign that she has a good sense of humor and is possibly interested.
 

Gangster Of Love

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2002
Messages
2,574
Reaction score
66
Age
52
Location
Los Angeles
Just respond: "Why don't we get on the phone like normal people do, and if I like you, I might tell you a little more? Give me your number, and maybe we can talk for a few minutes."
 
Top