"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Help with Email. How should I respond to this one.

wrasse

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Did the online thing and this is the 2nd email from her. (HB7-8 in unversity) after I asked what she'll do after finishing her MA.

Well you seem really nice. I haven't decided where I will be going after my MA. I am in my second year of a three year program, so I have a while to make some decisions and visit a few places.

So what is your life like? Honestly, I don't remember reading your profile so tell me about yourself. Besides, it's more fun hearing it from you anyway. :)

Have a good day!

Ttyl,


WTF? Not remember my profile? This seems like a game to me.

Thinking about just coming back and say "check it and call me" but looking for the smoothest don juan response.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by wrasse
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WTF? Not remember my profile? This seems like a game to me.

Thinking about just coming back and say "check it and call me" but looking for the smoothest don juan response.
My gut says it a game. I'd go "Chappelle" on her profile. She wants funny, I'd give it to her BIG TIME. Nothing mean, just enough to let her know that she should read a guy's profile next time. Plus, if she doesn't get pissed off, it would be a good sign that she has a good sense of humor and is possibly interested.
 

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Just respond: "Why don't we get on the phone like normal people do, and if I like you, I might tell you a little more? Give me your number, and maybe we can talk for a few minutes."
 
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