"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ive read through alot of the stuff on this site about how to talk to girls and stuff, like how to let her do 70% of talking and you do 30% and how to keep your questions open-endend, etc, etc

But I'm still having trouble starting up convos with people. I dont have any interseting subject to talk about without being extermely obvious with "wassup?" or "hows life?".

I just need things I can talk about, things that I can strike up convos with ppl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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start with something basic like "whats up". i usualy tell a joke then or bring up something funny (like something that happened at school earlier or a funny story). from there other people start talking and i usualy wait untill they bring something up where i can make a joke or some sarcastic comment. just dont start with something big the moment you walk in or else you look desperate and come off WAY too strong. group convo is pretty easy, its one-on-one that you should be worring about
 
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ANYTHING!

as long as you make it funny...
and it has to sound genuine, so the best thing is to really just say anything out of the top of your mind...it CAN'T sound as you've been thinking about saying it all day (which you might've done, which doesnt matter as long as you make it SOUND genuine...)
 
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complimenting isn't really what you want to do....it's kind of AFC behavior...

If you compliment at all you can say something like:
"Nice dress...did you buy it new?" etc....something like that (if you say it the right way she'll kinda know that you still like it :D )
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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