"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help with asking HB8.5 23 year old out.

Niterider450

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The problem is she works two jobs. Her day job she does not get a lunch break and her second shift job she only gets about 20 minutes so I am thinking of asking her this.
If you have time after you get off from your 1st job I would like to take you to lunch before you have to go to the second job.
Does this sound ok? By the way she is nurse and very hot and tall about 6'1 and probably gets hit on a lot but I sense some attraction.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LMFAO

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Her being busy working like a dog all day is her problem, not your problem.

"If you have time..." - AFC material.

Simply do this:

"Let's grab a drink or a bite some time this week"

<wait for her to say yes sure>

"Cool, when's good for you?"
 

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Niterider450

The problem is she works two jobs. Her day job she does not get a lunch break and her second shift job she only gets about 20 minutes so I am thinking of asking her this.
If you have time after you get off from your 1st job I would like to take you to lunch before you have to go to the second job.
Does this sound ok? By the way she is nurse and very hot and tall about 6'1 and probably gets hit on a lot but I sense some attraction.
Dude get the HELL off of this forum and go to the General Discussion section! This section is for grown a.ss men! Grown a.ss men don't ask stupid, childish questions like, "How do I ask her out?" You ask her out by ASKING HER OUT you doofus. Either she says yes, no, maybe, or nothing at all...and whatever she says you DEAL with it as you move onto the next chick.
 

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Tenacity said:
Dude get the HELL off of this forum and go to the General Discussion section! This section is for grown a.ss men! Grown a.ss men don't ask stupid, childish questions like, "How do I ask her out?" You ask her out by ASKING HER OUT you doofus. Either she says yes, no, maybe, or nothing at all...and whatever she says you DEAL with it as you move onto the next chick.

Wow, that was SUCH a grown ass man response of yours...
 

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Tenacity said:
Dude get the HELL off of this forum and go to the General Discussion section! This section is for grown a.ss men! Grown a.ss men don't ask stupid, childish questions like, "How do I ask her out?" You ask her out by ASKING HER OUT you doofus. Either she says yes, no, maybe, or nothing at all...and whatever she says you DEAL with it as you move onto the next chick.
Well excuse me. I am older than you so show some respect to your elders.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, if you are OLDER than me....sir....then you should be beyond elementary questions. Plus your age is supposed to be displayed on this section of the Forum as well.
 

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Just ask, and don't think about it. There is no shortcut. Don't do lunch, that's too business-like, push for coffee or drinks after she gets off from work. Keep it cheap. Plan on her using her busy schedule to say no, though. Unless you know this is 100% true, she could of pre-prepped the situation to deter you from asking her out.

Either way, don't think about it, and the next time you run into her just ask. If she aches and moans and starts with the work BS, jet outta there and cut your losses.

Good luck.
 

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Just say: hey baby whats say I ask you out on a date, take you out to dinner, movie and drinks and later you can casually accuse me of rape.

DO NOT DATE AMERICAN WOMEN.
 

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