"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help with asking HB8.5 23 year old out.

Niterider450

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The problem is she works two jobs. Her day job she does not get a lunch break and her second shift job she only gets about 20 minutes so I am thinking of asking her this.
If you have time after you get off from your 1st job I would like to take you to lunch before you have to go to the second job.
Does this sound ok? By the way she is nurse and very hot and tall about 6'1 and probably gets hit on a lot but I sense some attraction.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LMFAO

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Her being busy working like a dog all day is her problem, not your problem.

"If you have time..." - AFC material.

Simply do this:

"Let's grab a drink or a bite some time this week"

<wait for her to say yes sure>

"Cool, when's good for you?"
 

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Niterider450

The problem is she works two jobs. Her day job she does not get a lunch break and her second shift job she only gets about 20 minutes so I am thinking of asking her this.
If you have time after you get off from your 1st job I would like to take you to lunch before you have to go to the second job.
Does this sound ok? By the way she is nurse and very hot and tall about 6'1 and probably gets hit on a lot but I sense some attraction.
Dude get the HELL off of this forum and go to the General Discussion section! This section is for grown a.ss men! Grown a.ss men don't ask stupid, childish questions like, "How do I ask her out?" You ask her out by ASKING HER OUT you doofus. Either she says yes, no, maybe, or nothing at all...and whatever she says you DEAL with it as you move onto the next chick.
 

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Tenacity said:
Dude get the HELL off of this forum and go to the General Discussion section! This section is for grown a.ss men! Grown a.ss men don't ask stupid, childish questions like, "How do I ask her out?" You ask her out by ASKING HER OUT you doofus. Either she says yes, no, maybe, or nothing at all...and whatever she says you DEAL with it as you move onto the next chick.

Wow, that was SUCH a grown ass man response of yours...
 

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Tenacity said:
Dude get the HELL off of this forum and go to the General Discussion section! This section is for grown a.ss men! Grown a.ss men don't ask stupid, childish questions like, "How do I ask her out?" You ask her out by ASKING HER OUT you doofus. Either she says yes, no, maybe, or nothing at all...and whatever she says you DEAL with it as you move onto the next chick.
Well excuse me. I am older than you so show some respect to your elders.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, if you are OLDER than me....sir....then you should be beyond elementary questions. Plus your age is supposed to be displayed on this section of the Forum as well.
 

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Just ask, and don't think about it. There is no shortcut. Don't do lunch, that's too business-like, push for coffee or drinks after she gets off from work. Keep it cheap. Plan on her using her busy schedule to say no, though. Unless you know this is 100% true, she could of pre-prepped the situation to deter you from asking her out.

Either way, don't think about it, and the next time you run into her just ask. If she aches and moans and starts with the work BS, jet outta there and cut your losses.

Good luck.
 

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Just say: hey baby whats say I ask you out on a date, take you out to dinner, movie and drinks and later you can casually accuse me of rape.

DO NOT DATE AMERICAN WOMEN.
 

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