Help! Whacky jealous chick.

[Don Juanabbe]

Hey guys,

Can I get your take on this? I have a friend I've known for a couple of years, and she's had a boyfriend the whole time, so I've always treated her as off limits. I don't really know the guy all that well. One night, something happened between us, but I just chocked it up to being one of those things because alcohol was involved. Business as usual on my part.

Well, now I have a problem. Her friend, whom I only see around her and her group, has been showing extremely high interest level in me. She gives me the eyes bigtime. I don't know her. She's very shy, and has trouble conversating. I only see her once or twice a week. She comes up and tries to talk to me, and I do likewise. The problem is, this other chick with the boyfriend keeps stepping in. She cuts off the conversation. Engages me in conversation for as long as possible while the other one is around. She shows visible signs of jealousy because I can see her watching us out of the corner of my eye. As far as I know, while her and the boyfriend were having problems, they're trying to work it out. Why the hell is she doing this to me? It's seriously affecting me getting closer to this other chick. What do I do? Just ignore the jealous chick and try some subtle way to get the other's number? This is seriously f*cked up, help!!

 

[Jvesti]

there's nothing to say really

your story was entertaining

Chicks are supercompetitive. She's probably stakin out her claim if things between the bf dont' work out. She don't want the friend limiting her options.

She obviousely has a thing for you if she's doing this.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Get shy girl's number any way you can - then pursue her alone without other's company. Isolate yourself with her, so that you can pull your 'mack daddy' game on her.

Men don't let other people interfere with their mission, dismiss the 'noise' and stay focus!

Don't ask us how you should get girl's number, just do it!

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Guys, thanks for taking the time to reply, even though the solution is obvious. I know what I have to do. I guess I gotta tread lightly because I do consider the jealous chick my friend. I especially like the advice you gave, Puerto Rican, about not letting the 'noise' interfere. I have to really keep that in mind, because I've slowly become adept at using the jealousy thing and playing one girl off the other in multi-girl situations. Hey, why not use a resource if it's there right? The only problem is, this has come back to bite me in the ass. There's a lesson for everyone I guess: Don't mow anyone else's lawn no matter how drunk you are. Easier said than done, I suppose.

Thanks guys, I'm going to get this girls number and isolate her as soon as I can.

 

[jbbrain]

what happened with the jealous chick? did u fvck her???

Why do u regret fvcking her? She seems to be just another dumb wh0re anyways...i mean..friend!