Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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HELP! Wanted to leave her...can't take the heat

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Ahh... now THAT's the smartest thing you've said this whole thread!

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yul said:
This is a true story nevertheless. This is a once in a lifetime situation and I jumped in, sadly I guess.
Of course it is. And you are the 38-yo failed mother. Minus the really hot and oversexed fantasy part. That is all but clear from your old age alone...and fantasy of having a young guy getting so turned on by you (to validate your youthful appeal in your mind).

I mean, what guy says "making out" 2X a day at first...then changes it to "sex" later when called out? See, the first was a chick-flicky ASD female response, the 2nd a fake male cover-up.

Lol, GREAT call, Vulpine! Yul is either a washed-up cougar or the biggest mangina ever.
 

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wayword said:
I mean, what guy says "making out" 2X a day at first...then changes it to "sex" later when called out? See, the first was an chick-flicky ASD female response, the 2nd a fake male cover-up.

Ooh... I didn't see that one, good eye! Well, I was convinced already, so I stopped looking.
 

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^^ Funny how she goes from "making out" 2X/day to AWESOME SEX with squirting and whips and wanking it 3X a day! ...In just 2 posts. :rolleyes:

Right. Only squirting a 38-yo be doing is some WD40 in her dusty leather cooter.
yul said:
She's the one saying she loves me. I sometimes don't even reply.
Lol, aww, how sad for you - your little boy toy only uses you for some subpar sex... Well, get used to unrequited love at your age and failed mother status.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OK, now I'll lock this thread.
 
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