"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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help w/ myspace

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john_1234

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first time using myspace to mack. exchanged messages several times with cutie... the last message she sent me, said she was seeing someone new; but obvious she wasn't fully committed. how would you respond to something like this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ_in_making

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come on man. There are like 1000 myspace posts on this forum.
 

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Get her instant messenger name as soon as you can. Your correspondance on myspace should be very short. No more than like 5 or 6 messages total between the 2 of you. Get to instant messenger. Then get to phone. Don't stall out in any one of those for too long. Just use myspace as a vehicle to IM, and IM as a vehicle to phone, and phone as a vehicle for a meet-up.
 
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