"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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help w/ myspace

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john_1234

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first time using myspace to mack. exchanged messages several times with cutie... the last message she sent me, said she was seeing someone new; but obvious she wasn't fully committed. how would you respond to something like this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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come on man. There are like 1000 myspace posts on this forum.
 

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Get her instant messenger name as soon as you can. Your correspondance on myspace should be very short. No more than like 5 or 6 messages total between the 2 of you. Get to instant messenger. Then get to phone. Don't stall out in any one of those for too long. Just use myspace as a vehicle to IM, and IM as a vehicle to phone, and phone as a vehicle for a meet-up.
 
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