"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Help w/ a new girl I know.

DontDoDrugs

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Okok, First post...I've read a lot on here, and this is a somewhat unique situation.

Anyway, some background info : Im a sophomore, athletic, reputation around school is pretty good, but I'd like it to be better with ladies. Confident with my looks - It's not a big issue. Have had 2 g/f in past year, nothing major, and theres lots of room for improvement.

Anyway, heres the situation

Friday night, Im at a pretty usual poker game with friends. I pick up my friends cell phone and look through his humongous phone number database lol. I recognize most of the chicks from school, but one I dont, and im bored so I call her up lol. I call and Im messing with her a lot ( semi-prank call type ) But then I chill down a little and whatever cause I Saw her myspace and she actually looked good, and we have lots in common!

So anyway, I'll summerize where I'm at. Saw her at schol today and introduced myself. This was at snack about 5 mins after first bell rang. SHe greeted me with a genuine smile. We just said hey, what sup, blah blah for 1 min and she left. She seemed a little cautious since I came off as a weirdo on the phone lol.

Anyway, heres the thing. I'm not concerned with really worrying if she likes me or not, Its not a looks thing. But, I dont wanna come off as a freak calling her up outta the blue or just walking up to her and try to hang out. Im not sure what approach is really best for this. I was thinking to just play it cool this week and see If i can catch her alone or make some good eye contact and break some ice. If that doesn't happeN ( I have her in 0 classes ) I plan to call her in like 3 days and maybe just say whats up, ask to hangout, flirt a little, blah blah.

So tell me guys, what do you think is the best approach to this? And sorry if this is a weak post, it's my first :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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toddC

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I'm no DJ or anything but I think what you should do is...greet her a few more times in the mornings liek you did today, and then wednesday or thursday after you hopefully get in some good convo be like my friend gave me ur # im gunna call u to chill this weekend and just liek walk away not even letting her get a response in.
 

DontDoDrugs

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Haha, I like that "no reply" part, shows confidence.

I'll most likely do that. Any other suggestions welcome. thanks :)
 
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