"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help w/ a new girl I know.

DontDoDrugs

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Okok, First post...I've read a lot on here, and this is a somewhat unique situation.

Anyway, some background info : Im a sophomore, athletic, reputation around school is pretty good, but I'd like it to be better with ladies. Confident with my looks - It's not a big issue. Have had 2 g/f in past year, nothing major, and theres lots of room for improvement.

Anyway, heres the situation

Friday night, Im at a pretty usual poker game with friends. I pick up my friends cell phone and look through his humongous phone number database lol. I recognize most of the chicks from school, but one I dont, and im bored so I call her up lol. I call and Im messing with her a lot ( semi-prank call type ) But then I chill down a little and whatever cause I Saw her myspace and she actually looked good, and we have lots in common!

So anyway, I'll summerize where I'm at. Saw her at schol today and introduced myself. This was at snack about 5 mins after first bell rang. SHe greeted me with a genuine smile. We just said hey, what sup, blah blah for 1 min and she left. She seemed a little cautious since I came off as a weirdo on the phone lol.

Anyway, heres the thing. I'm not concerned with really worrying if she likes me or not, Its not a looks thing. But, I dont wanna come off as a freak calling her up outta the blue or just walking up to her and try to hang out. Im not sure what approach is really best for this. I was thinking to just play it cool this week and see If i can catch her alone or make some good eye contact and break some ice. If that doesn't happeN ( I have her in 0 classes ) I plan to call her in like 3 days and maybe just say whats up, ask to hangout, flirt a little, blah blah.

So tell me guys, what do you think is the best approach to this? And sorry if this is a weak post, it's my first :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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toddC

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I'm no DJ or anything but I think what you should do is...greet her a few more times in the mornings liek you did today, and then wednesday or thursday after you hopefully get in some good convo be like my friend gave me ur # im gunna call u to chill this weekend and just liek walk away not even letting her get a response in.
 

DontDoDrugs

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Haha, I like that "no reply" part, shows confidence.

I'll most likely do that. Any other suggestions welcome. thanks :)
 
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