"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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beatoven

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Hey everyone, first off this is an awesome site and I can honestly say it's changed my life.

During my transformation from AFC to Don Juan, I used this chick as a kind of "guinea pig." She's my supervisor at work, extremely attractive, and the airhead drama queen sorority girl variety. I picked her because I figured I didn't have a chance (virtually every guy drools over her, plus she's my boss), and because she wasn't really my type.

Over the course of the last couple months I've thrown everything I've learned at her - ****y/funny, hot/cold, unpredictablity, kino, eye contact - the works. And guess what? She is f*cking obsessed with me. She has shown every possible sign of interest womanly possible.

Unfortunately I didn't think my actions would have quite that effect on her. So now I've got a problem. This girl is NUTS about me. But I'm not sure if I should close the deal by dating or ****ing her. For one thing, she's not my type. And she's a slut (she's been with at least 6 guys), as well as my supervisor.

So I've dug myself a hole here. She's nuts about me, but I'm concerned about the consequences (ie fired or getting an STD) so I haven't done anything with her outside of work. And her obsession is growing to the point where people are starting to ask questions about us. Ignoring her/telling her to fuuck off just makes her even more crazy about me.

I'm in way over my head. What do I do? This can't continue and I need to make a decision fast.


muchos gracias.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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alwayslead8821

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yeah I agree with danger... man up and go for it.. Are you not experienced yourself or something?
 

sharkbeat

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This is called fear. Eventually, she would see it and lose her interest, and when that happens, you would beat the crap out of yourself.
 

underoath777

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Yeah I have to agree. Six guys is NOTHING. Lol but I used to think that made a girl a slut too so just realize that is normal around 18.

Dude go for it. I was in this situation with a co-worker who was HOTTT, but ended up telling her I wasn't interested. Why? Because she had cheated on her boyfriend before.

So, the other guy who liked her (well everyone liked her, he was just the only other one who had a chance) moved in, and theyve been together ever since. That was 2 years ago.


Obviously, you can just fvck her, or maybe she'll be a cool girl.

Either way, go for it bro.
 
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