"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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beatoven

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Hey everyone, first off this is an awesome site and I can honestly say it's changed my life.

During my transformation from AFC to Don Juan, I used this chick as a kind of "guinea pig." She's my supervisor at work, extremely attractive, and the airhead drama queen sorority girl variety. I picked her because I figured I didn't have a chance (virtually every guy drools over her, plus she's my boss), and because she wasn't really my type.

Over the course of the last couple months I've thrown everything I've learned at her - ****y/funny, hot/cold, unpredictablity, kino, eye contact - the works. And guess what? She is f*cking obsessed with me. She has shown every possible sign of interest womanly possible.

Unfortunately I didn't think my actions would have quite that effect on her. So now I've got a problem. This girl is NUTS about me. But I'm not sure if I should close the deal by dating or ****ing her. For one thing, she's not my type. And she's a slut (she's been with at least 6 guys), as well as my supervisor.

So I've dug myself a hole here. She's nuts about me, but I'm concerned about the consequences (ie fired or getting an STD) so I haven't done anything with her outside of work. And her obsession is growing to the point where people are starting to ask questions about us. Ignoring her/telling her to fuuck off just makes her even more crazy about me.

I'm in way over my head. What do I do? This can't continue and I need to make a decision fast.


muchos gracias.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alwayslead8821

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yeah I agree with danger... man up and go for it.. Are you not experienced yourself or something?
 

sharkbeat

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This is called fear. Eventually, she would see it and lose her interest, and when that happens, you would beat the crap out of yourself.
 

underoath777

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Yeah I have to agree. Six guys is NOTHING. Lol but I used to think that made a girl a slut too so just realize that is normal around 18.

Dude go for it. I was in this situation with a co-worker who was HOTTT, but ended up telling her I wasn't interested. Why? Because she had cheated on her boyfriend before.

So, the other guy who liked her (well everyone liked her, he was just the only other one who had a chance) moved in, and theyve been together ever since. That was 2 years ago.


Obviously, you can just fvck her, or maybe she'll be a cool girl.

Either way, go for it bro.
 
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