"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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help! too many girls!

iCY

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Ive been at this for a about a year or so in my school and only now has it been paying off. Im starting to see alot of interest from ALOT of girls all at the same time. i can see my self, and alot of my friends have told me about 7 or 8 girls that like me currently and theres prolly more.

now the problem is i dont know what to do. ive goten to know most of these girls somewhat well and if i were to go out with one of them, the rest would be crushed. like most ppl im not really looking for a LTR, just some sex...... what would be the best way to do that with all of them and not have any of them find out? remember....these are highschool girls and most of them are somewhat innocent. =/ help!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ThaDJ

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pick one. there is nothing else you can do.. all of them will find out.
 

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yo, just start hookin up with all of them and go as far as you can until they force the "exclusivity" issue.
 

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wait = you dont gotta do anything yet.

this is not a urgent matter.

take a minute to reflect on it and smile dude. this doesnt happen every day to people so just smile.

now that the smile is on your face, think about these girls.
do they really really want you this bad , or do they want you more because there is competion?

after you have accessed the issue , decide for yourself if you want one of them, want to date around or whatever.

if you can t decide, then tell them all that you dont know any of them well enough to be exclusive. see who sticks around to tug your chain. see who tries to get to know you more and win you over, after that i think you will see if you really want one for a girlfriend or not.
 

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Originally posted by kiz
yo, just start hookin up with all of them and go as far as you can until they force the "exclusivity" issue.
When they do start forcing exclusivity on you either say

a)If you have deep rapport with them:"I like you alot and I enjoy the time I spend with you however I do not feel I can make such a commitment at the moment and would appreciate an open relationship until I feel exclusivity is important to me"
b)If you dont really care:"If you cannot accept me going out with other girls then I fear I have misunderstood you and maybe we should just be friends
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oh man send some over here
 

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Be greatful, i was in your position once kinda and it was greeeeeeeeeat. They all went to the same school and knew of each other. I miss those days.
 

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I hate that, i diversified and picked up girls from other schools. But now its even worse as there is this whole network of girls and my m8s actually tell girls to stay away from me (an aphrodisiac for most of the girls). You are going to end up hurting some. Just go for the one you most want to get and then down in that order. Leaving the sluttiest one till last, cos she wont mind having slippy 3rds
 

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Originally posted by JSH
my m8s actually tell girls to stay away from me
awwww... are the wee little girls a little jealous? :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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