"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Help! Think I just did it for the first time
- Thread starter DonJuan11
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dude, you need to chill on the porn. You'll become desensitized by it. Then you'll need more of it and weird sh1t to get you off. So, if you're going to whack it, don't do it to porn.
Which was it that helped her do it the best? Being from Ohio, being Muslim, or both?Warrior74 said:well kill yourself blud. I've had great handjobs from women. I knew a muslim girl from ohio who did this two handed thing....wow.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
To your first point, I said what I had to so she would want to sleep with me.Mavrick said:
To your second point, I'm done with porn. A naked girl in my room on my bed allowing me to do anything I want and I can't get it up is porn's fault.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
shyt, i missed this the first time around... telling a girl you "love" here so that you can get in her pants is not DJ at all, in fact it s quite the contrary. I don't care what anybody else says, but straight up lying about your feelings to get into a girl's pants is despicable.DonJuan11 said:
Do you love her? Do you have those love feelings like you do for your family? If not, then you don't love her. Those tingly feelings you get for the 1st 2 years go away. Then your left with a woman you never took the chance to get to know because you supplicated, begged, and ignored red flags.DonJuan11 said:
Start thinking with your mind and not with your d|ck or heart. If you want a lay, then you need to be the one in control. If you think porn is causing you to go limp, then stop. If it's your nerves, then change your thoughts. Look at the positive side instead of the negative.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
DonJuan11..
you have been here since Aug. which is 9 months or so and have posted nearly 800 times.
i have been here for over 5 years and dont have half as many posts that you do.
now these statements may seem irrelevant, but when you have the time to post that much and STILL not understand the concepts that are taught and learned on this board, it gets very irritating.
i come to this forum to help people and have others help me, but it seems as if you dont take advice or even read the material that you have easily available to you.
I LOVE YOU ....????
even if you never made it to this forum you would know better than to fabricate this.
take the time to read the dj bible. and if you have already, REREAD it.
you dont have to take everyones advice on this board, but atleast take the time to educate yourself on becoming a better MAN.
dont take my post as insulting to you at all. i just think that if you spend the time on the forum you should be able to take something from it, and i want to contribute to others has others continue to contribute to my success in life not just with women
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I rarely say this. But seriously. Do you have mental issues? Sexual Hang ups? A history of abuse? Gay tendencies? Low testoterone? High estrogen? Are you just terrified of sex? You don't have to anwser any of these here on the forum. Just ask yourself and admit the truth to youself and then be a man and deal with which ever one it is via medical or professional help. I would almost suggest just getting a high class call girl to get rid of your V card if you are just afraid. But you have to decide for yourself. Good luck.DonJuan11 said:
anyway, all i can say is get together with her again, and give it another go. just don't think so much--let it happen. have confidence, and you'll be alright.