Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dearl

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O.K I told the Don Juans about a girl I was fully attracted to a while back and they told me to talk to her. I got her number finally, though I only talked to her a few times. Now since I got her number she doesn't no much about me and I dont wanna mess up the first conversation with nothing to say but how is summer so far? Can I get some good tips and questions that would make are first conversation enjoyable and into her heart and mind? Thanks:rock:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hard to give out canned lines, but agree to meet up somewhere be it for lunch or w/e. When you meet her find something distinct about her and comment on it. Carry it on from there.

I read somewhere on here awhile back to have three good funny stories that you can tell her. Tell her the first story and carry the conversation onto a related topic until it seems to die off and if it does seem like its dieing off bring up story 2
 

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Go to lunch, I dont know she does have somebody.
 

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Well you should be ringing up with a purpose other than just to talk to her.

But regardless, even if she agrees to go with you somewhere, unless you have good game (and im suspecting you don't) then she's just going to pilot you straight into the friends zone because she already has someone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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