"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dearl

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O.K I told the Don Juans about a girl I was fully attracted to a while back and they told me to talk to her. I got her number finally, though I only talked to her a few times. Now since I got her number she doesn't no much about me and I dont wanna mess up the first conversation with nothing to say but how is summer so far? Can I get some good tips and questions that would make are first conversation enjoyable and into her heart and mind? Thanks:rock:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hard to give out canned lines, but agree to meet up somewhere be it for lunch or w/e. When you meet her find something distinct about her and comment on it. Carry it on from there.

I read somewhere on here awhile back to have three good funny stories that you can tell her. Tell her the first story and carry the conversation onto a related topic until it seems to die off and if it does seem like its dieing off bring up story 2
 
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Go to lunch, I dont know she does have somebody.
 
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Well you should be ringing up with a purpose other than just to talk to her.

But regardless, even if she agrees to go with you somewhere, unless you have good game (and im suspecting you don't) then she's just going to pilot you straight into the friends zone because she already has someone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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