I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and iv been seeing this new chick for a month. once or twice a week we've been going out. she was into me, doesnt flake and already fcked. everything was going smooth until my ex hacked into my fb acount and on my account she messaged her threatening her and telling her to stay away from me. The next day she confronted me and told me she dont know if we can work out even though I explained to her that we broke up a while ago. A mutual friend then decides to call her telling her that ik was de,pressed and that we really did break up. she then tells him if I call her tonite she will come out. I eventually did and she straight up said no. I hit her up the next day and she doesnt pick up. I acted a bit desperate. did I fail a **** test? how do I rebound?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
help! **** test??
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Mr_Stinky said:
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Wut?
VikingKing
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This is called harassment. Contact Facebook about your account being hacked, explain to them you want to make a police report.
Contact the police right away.
Contact the police right away.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Wait until you graduate highschool to worry about women so much.
cervantesscthree
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Some advice to add the good stuff above, F it, it is what it is. Maybe ring her when you want but I think she's gone, slap yr ex while yr at it. She crossed the line.
Also, don't waste yr youth worrying about girls, invest in yr interests or what you love, make money from it, so maybe you not stuck in a shi*ty job with betas when yr older.
P.S use a condom, ALWAYS
Also, don't waste yr youth worrying about girls, invest in yr interests or what you love, make money from it, so maybe you not stuck in a shi*ty job with betas when yr older.
P.S use a condom, ALWAYS
Forget trying to rebound with her.
It sounds like your new girl spends too much time in her own head turning everything into a drama, if you do get together with her, she's going to be seriously hard work.
Move on.
It sounds like your new girl spends too much time in her own head turning everything into a drama, if you do get together with her, she's going to be seriously hard work.
Move on.