I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and iv been seeing this new chick for a month. once or twice a week we've been going out. she was into me, doesnt flake and already fcked. everything was going smooth until my ex hacked into my fb acount and on my account she messaged her threatening her and telling her to stay away from me. The next day she confronted me and told me she dont know if we can work out even though I explained to her that we broke up a while ago. A mutual friend then decides to call her telling her that ik was de,pressed and that we really did break up. she then tells him if I call her tonite she will come out. I eventually did and she straight up said no. I hit her up the next day and she doesnt pick up. I acted a bit desperate. did I fail a **** test? how do I rebound?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
help! **** test??
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheVirtualMind
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Mr_Stinky said:
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Wut?
VikingKing
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This is called harassment. Contact Facebook about your account being hacked, explain to them you want to make a police report.
Contact the police right away.
Contact the police right away.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Wait until you graduate highschool to worry about women so much.
cervantesscthree
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Some advice to add the good stuff above, F it, it is what it is. Maybe ring her when you want but I think she's gone, slap yr ex while yr at it. She crossed the line.
Also, don't waste yr youth worrying about girls, invest in yr interests or what you love, make money from it, so maybe you not stuck in a shi*ty job with betas when yr older.
P.S use a condom, ALWAYS
Also, don't waste yr youth worrying about girls, invest in yr interests or what you love, make money from it, so maybe you not stuck in a shi*ty job with betas when yr older.
P.S use a condom, ALWAYS
Forget trying to rebound with her.
It sounds like your new girl spends too much time in her own head turning everything into a drama, if you do get together with her, she's going to be seriously hard work.
Move on.
It sounds like your new girl spends too much time in her own head turning everything into a drama, if you do get together with her, she's going to be seriously hard work.
Move on.