"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Ok, so basically I wrote a long message and noone really responded to it so heres a short version of it. Heres the longer version. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=118153

Ok so I work with this chick and shes so hot. Basically we were gonna goto the bar but this guy screwed us over and messed up the plans. She called him a lot of times and he managed to mess it up. Then I went to work after that weekend and got stuff straightened out. Then she like didn't come back to work for like over a month and while she was gone I asked the guy for her number but he said she said no (hes very untrustworthy), and I sent her a message on facebook asking her out but got no response. When she came back to work finally I didn't say anything to her for 2 days and then we made eyecontact in the hall and she gave me this awesome look. I don't really know what to do and I would appretiate it if you guys read the other message. Its pretty long though. But it would really help out since like my head is out of it right now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think it's still too long, shorten it a bit more.
 

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cause its a big factory. And everyone was finished and we come upstairs from different areas. So like I would have had to stop like a lot of people to get her number.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Yeah I don't know why I even posted on here. I know what I gotta do. She's already given me the cue that I'm golden. First she called my buddy I told her I was going to the bar with like 20 times. And when she FINALLY got back to my work what did she do? Whenever I was in the Cafe' at the same time as her and did not talk to her she looked pissed! And when we finally made eyecontact after 2 days what did she do? She gave me the hottest look ever... her eyes... they were like.. you could just see the WANT. Man I seriously wish you guys could see this girl, the only thing wrong with her is shes a little bit too tall and her tits could be a bit bigger. Her face is incredible... like 1 in 100 out of HB9's.. I don't believe in 10s so.. anyways I'm good I hope I just don't get too nervous and blow it.. its wierd usually I never get any nervousness or whatever when asking girls out but with her.. I dunno. Anyways I know what I gotta do... Yo girl you get me a Valentines day card yet? just to start the convo.. hell I could just gimme your number if I don't get a convo chance.. I hope it all goes well :) **** I already basically asked her out once to her face anyways and I was ok that time I should be good :) PEACE
 
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