"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help -- short version of message

IamtheAlphamale

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Ok, so basically I wrote a long message and noone really responded to it so heres a short version of it. Heres the longer version. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=118153

Ok so I work with this chick and shes so hot. Basically we were gonna goto the bar but this guy screwed us over and messed up the plans. She called him a lot of times and he managed to mess it up. Then I went to work after that weekend and got stuff straightened out. Then she like didn't come back to work for like over a month and while she was gone I asked the guy for her number but he said she said no (hes very untrustworthy), and I sent her a message on facebook asking her out but got no response. When she came back to work finally I didn't say anything to her for 2 days and then we made eyecontact in the hall and she gave me this awesome look. I don't really know what to do and I would appretiate it if you guys read the other message. Its pretty long though. But it would really help out since like my head is out of it right now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think it's still too long, shorten it a bit more.
 
IamtheAlphamale

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cause its a big factory. And everyone was finished and we come upstairs from different areas. So like I would have had to stop like a lot of people to get her number.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah I don't know why I even posted on here. I know what I gotta do. She's already given me the cue that I'm golden. First she called my buddy I told her I was going to the bar with like 20 times. And when she FINALLY got back to my work what did she do? Whenever I was in the Cafe' at the same time as her and did not talk to her she looked pissed! And when we finally made eyecontact after 2 days what did she do? She gave me the hottest look ever... her eyes... they were like.. you could just see the WANT. Man I seriously wish you guys could see this girl, the only thing wrong with her is shes a little bit too tall and her tits could be a bit bigger. Her face is incredible... like 1 in 100 out of HB9's.. I don't believe in 10s so.. anyways I'm good I hope I just don't get too nervous and blow it.. its wierd usually I never get any nervousness or whatever when asking girls out but with her.. I dunno. Anyways I know what I gotta do... Yo girl you get me a Valentines day card yet? just to start the convo.. hell I could just gimme your number if I don't get a convo chance.. I hope it all goes well :) **** I already basically asked her out once to her face anyways and I was ok that time I should be good :) PEACE
 
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