“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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loverbomb50

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You all know how it says on every bible that the only way to win a girl is to say NO and not to give her attention a lot......well I met this HB20 yes 20(i know how ya'll are feelin about this) well she's hot and all so I ask her if she likes the attention and she says "NO"
Now what do I do...ignore her or what..........was she lying or something
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Every girl likes attention to a degree, however it's when you go over the top that they don't like it for example:
walking down the corridor...
<loverbomb>hey guys! she is so hot i'd bone her!
Little rule when complimenting her...less is more
 

Kwah

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Put less effort into winning her over and more in just being straight with her. If everyone else fawns over her, just chill with her, if everyone else thinks up grand ideas when asking her out, just say something simple, like lets go rollerblading one of these days or something. Show your more laid back and rugged than the rest of the chumps and it will work well for you.
 

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Originally posted by loverbomb50
You all know how it says on every bible that the only way to win a girl is to say NO and not to give her attention a lot......well I met this HB20 yes 20(i know how ya'll are feelin about this) well she's hot and all so I ask her if she likes the attention and she says "NO"
Now what do I do...ignore her or what..........was she lying or something
Give her varying amounts of attention, but when you do pay attention be COOL! Act like she's nothing special but you enjoy her company. All the other losers would be drooling over her and complimenting her. This is a good time to bust on her somehow (clothes, hair, shoes, etc).

Above all else, don't let your feelings get in the way. Keep a level head and use C+F and you'll be fine.
 
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