"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Elnihilisto

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Im new and this is my first post.I need you help guys.
So to make the story short:
Met this girl at work during the break time,i was chatting to some friends when I see this chick staring at me.So I continue chatting to my mates but subtly introduce her to the conversation,we get along fine,we finally exchange numbers...etc.During the next 3 days we have encountered eachother a couple of times in which she usually was flirty and friendly.Friday evening we met again and she asks me if I wanna hang out with her on Saturday.We meet on Saturday and nothing really happens we chat and seem to have fun(it wasn't the right moment for a kiss or that is what I thought)but for a first date it went pretty good.For the next days we meet during the break and chat,hug,flirt it seemed like she was giving me the "green light" so to say.Tuesday evening,yesterday,we hanged out with our group of friends and when they all left she gives me this look(like "kiss me now") and I do kiss her.We have a long kiss and she seems to be in heaven,and after that we hug and seem like we're made for eachother.It all goes fine but the next day ,wednesday, she gives me this weird message "I don't wanna hurt your feelings,im not really in a mood for a relationship,bla bla bla".......We meet and she seems flirty and friendly again.Thanks for reading my "little" story now the question:what should I do?(ps:sorry for my English it's not my native language)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dgwizdal

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lol - you're too easy and this sounds like you're 12.
 

HyperAnalyze

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Invite her to your place and bang her.

I honestly don't know how old you are OP, but you need to strike while the iron is scalding hot.

Don't get sucked into the friendzone. ESCALATE as fast as you can.
 

DragonBlood

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Elnihilisto said:
We have a long kiss and she seems to be in heaven,and after that we hug and seem like we're made for eachother.
And? You should have moved things further than a hug. Not in the mood for a relationship is BS, she is backwards rationalising her actions and why she stopped at the kiss. Just escalate further when you kiss again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the_great_gaia

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she doesn't want to be in a relationship, as everyone else has said. she wants to have "fun". She wants sex, but.. she is going to want to have "fun" with other guys too, and she's hoping that you can understand that, because if you end up "falling" for her, she is going to hang you like a towel. good luck.
 

Alvafe

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when she said be on a realationship, you should ahve said, and "who the hell mentioned anything about a relationship?"

but in anycase just escalate or better yet look for more girls.
 

Elnihilisto

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A few days passed and she still cold,cold as ice.You guys think I should stop pursuing her?(ps:during these days I kinda kept a low profile with her)Any tips?
 
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