Help, please.

[Comfortably_Numb]

OK, so I had to stay after school the other day and I was in the cafeteria. The cheerleaders were in there practicing. Then the girl I have a crush on walked in and joined the other cheerleaders. Well, I never really see her anywhere else around school, so this is pretty much my only shot to talk to her. [There are football games, but when I went to the one last Friday I noticed she was never alone. (When she had breaks from cheering she was hanging out with the other cheerleaders.)]

So, my problem is this: I don't know how I could approach her (I think it'd be best at practice, at the game she's with other girls and I don't think I could even get to her anyways), don't know what to say, do, etc.

I'd appreciate any help. If it matters, I'm 16.

 

[Relationship-Buddy]

Find out where the parties are after the next football game and ask her before hand if she is going to any...

Then happen across that same party.

Good Luck!

 

[BlakeW5]

Hot chicks are rarely alone. If you want to talk to an attractive chick (especially at school or in a social setting) expect to have to deal with her friends also.

There are plenty of ways you can approach her. Do a search and look around on the forum. Chances are you'll find something you like or that fits your situation. Don't think you need an opener though. You can always just walk up and talk to her and her friends.

The two of you don't have classes together or take the same class at different times do you?

 

[Comfortably_Numb]

Hot chicks are rarely alone. If you want to talk to an attractive chick (especially at school or in a social setting) expect to have to deal with her friends also.

There are plenty of ways you can approach her. Do a search and look around on the forum. Chances are you'll find something you like or that fits your situation. Don't think you need an opener though. You can always just walk up and talk to her and her friends.

The two of you don't have classes together or take the same class at different times do you?

I wouldn't think so. She's a senior and I'm a junior.

 

[Five To One]

It sounds difficult to do, talk to a popular girl who is a year older and you have no classes with her.

My advice is to put her on the back burner and game other chicks, I know you have a crush on her but just forget that for a while and game easier girls.

Leave this one up to chance, ex. a good oppertunity to approach her
Not a perfect oppertunity, but a good oppertunity. Guys spend years waiting for that perfect oppertunity that will never come.


Because I dunno about your high school but in my high school, walking up to her and her friends and trying to talk to them wouldnt fly for a second. You gotta know at least a couple of them or you will come off as fcking weird.