"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nicenomore

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Ok...
theres this girl , my junior in college...she smsed me yesterday that she is interested in me , and would like to meet me. She called me up today and made plans. Funnily , I've never seen her in college..I mean yeah shes my junior but I never know her by her face

My problem is that I've never been in this situation before: I mean , I'm still like what if its a bad prank still???? What if she flakes(Though if she does , I swear I'll game other chicks)????

These kind of negative thoughts are runing in my mind.... Any ways to banish them????

and any other suggestions???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jovan

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Seriously if you think its a prank then just dont show up and its no big deal if wherever you are suppose to meet she doesnt show up just start gaming the other chicks around so either way its a win win situation
 
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One thing I've learned in my little dating experience is that guys are supposed to be the initiators. If you aren't the one asking her out, something might be up.

Be wary, but go for it. Find another reason to be in the area, so if she flakes, it won't be a waste of your time.

If she flakes, don't bother associating with her again, she might come crawling back.

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Then again, she could be for real, in which case you hit gold.
 
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