Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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nicenomore

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Ok...
theres this girl , my junior in college...she smsed me yesterday that she is interested in me , and would like to meet me. She called me up today and made plans. Funnily , I've never seen her in college..I mean yeah shes my junior but I never know her by her face

My problem is that I've never been in this situation before: I mean , I'm still like what if its a bad prank still???? What if she flakes(Though if she does , I swear I'll game other chicks)????

These kind of negative thoughts are runing in my mind.... Any ways to banish them????

and any other suggestions???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jovan

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Seriously if you think its a prank then just dont show up and its no big deal if wherever you are suppose to meet she doesnt show up just start gaming the other chicks around so either way its a win win situation
 
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One thing I've learned in my little dating experience is that guys are supposed to be the initiators. If you aren't the one asking her out, something might be up.

Be wary, but go for it. Find another reason to be in the area, so if she flakes, it won't be a waste of your time.

If she flakes, don't bother associating with her again, she might come crawling back.

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Then again, she could be for real, in which case you hit gold.
 
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