"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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help please with lifestyle

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Here I am drinking.

I started early sleeping with many girls and drinking a lot. I don't know what to do anymore.

Ive been dating this girl for a few months and I'm not happy with her or the way she acts. I feel like the only way I can be happy is being the way I used to be but it seemed it was only a temp fix every time I slept with a new girl and drank.

I'm in my freshman year of community and I'm good with my family.

I'm drinking but this is a serious question. I don't know which direction I should go into.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hot chicks don't want no drunk...that should be a reason for u to get your act together dude. And for your own health but that's another board. You don't want to be a loser right?
 
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Dewd ur an idiot.

I'm drinking and it has nothing to do with this. I've gotten more ***** than I even desire and if I did want a certain girl I can get her and be as sober as it takes. I have a wealthy family and I'm great in school. Can't you see a totally different question? Just shut up.
 
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Wow, someone need a visit to AA.

You're only 18, buddy. So you think you can get away with stuff because you have a wealthy family? Be greatful for once. YOu can live with the denial that drinking is bad and wont take advice from anyone, but you did say that you're unhappy, didn't you? See a therapist that actually can help you and give you advice.
 
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I knew this site was worthless. Can I get an amen from The Realnezz?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well I guess I can answer my own question now I've been thinking about it. I'll just do what I did before. Break it off with my girlfriend because neither of us is amazingly happy, start over and get my confidence back, and just focus on my life and school.

Only you can make yourself happy, huh? Though once you taste something great, it makes you feel so empty to not persue more of a good thing.

Solution: Quit the job and prepare for summer classes, break up with a girl I'm in love with which is gonna SUCK, start surfing and weightlifting again and persue MY life and not care about anyone else but my family.

God this message is hard to type without saying again what an idiot Don Juan Marco is, lmao. And thanks to Loving My Army Man or whatever, now this board has stupid guys and girls.
 
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