"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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help please with lifestyle

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Here I am drinking.

I started early sleeping with many girls and drinking a lot. I don't know what to do anymore.

Ive been dating this girl for a few months and I'm not happy with her or the way she acts. I feel like the only way I can be happy is being the way I used to be but it seemed it was only a temp fix every time I slept with a new girl and drank.

I'm in my freshman year of community and I'm good with my family.

I'm drinking but this is a serious question. I don't know which direction I should go into.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hot chicks don't want no drunk...that should be a reason for u to get your act together dude. And for your own health but that's another board. You don't want to be a loser right?
 

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Dewd ur an idiot.

I'm drinking and it has nothing to do with this. I've gotten more ***** than I even desire and if I did want a certain girl I can get her and be as sober as it takes. I have a wealthy family and I'm great in school. Can't you see a totally different question? Just shut up.
 

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Wow, someone need a visit to AA.

You're only 18, buddy. So you think you can get away with stuff because you have a wealthy family? Be greatful for once. YOu can live with the denial that drinking is bad and wont take advice from anyone, but you did say that you're unhappy, didn't you? See a therapist that actually can help you and give you advice.
 

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I knew this site was worthless. Can I get an amen from The Realnezz?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well I guess I can answer my own question now I've been thinking about it. I'll just do what I did before. Break it off with my girlfriend because neither of us is amazingly happy, start over and get my confidence back, and just focus on my life and school.

Only you can make yourself happy, huh? Though once you taste something great, it makes you feel so empty to not persue more of a good thing.

Solution: Quit the job and prepare for summer classes, break up with a girl I'm in love with which is gonna SUCK, start surfing and weightlifting again and persue MY life and not care about anyone else but my family.

God this message is hard to type without saying again what an idiot Don Juan Marco is, lmao. And thanks to Loving My Army Man or whatever, now this board has stupid guys and girls.
 
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