"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Broke up with my girlfriend about a month and a half ago. Happen to run into her yesterday in school and we just talked and stuff. That is all nothing more. This morning she texted me saying it was great seeing me yesterday.

How do I get the idea that I am open to friendship but nothing more without coming off as a jerk. She hurt me and she does not really deserve it I guess but yesterday went well like I did not get any urges to get back with her so it definitely got easier for me and stuff. We were only dating three months prior to the break up.

So I want to text her saying what I feel. As in open to friendship no more etc etc.

I am probably over thinking this though... I do not want to lead her on or anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wouldn't say anything.
Let her tell you how she feels, let her be the one who worries, sends messages... keep busy keep moving
 
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yeah, I'd agree that you don't need to text her how you feel. If you want to be just friends, then simply act that way. Nothing else to it.

There's no need to come out and say it unless she does something to specifically provoke it like heavily coming on to you or asking you about it.
 
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wilford said:
I wouldn't say anything.
Let her tell you how she feels, let her be the one who worries, sends messages... keep busy keep moving
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As a dude you do stuff and let the girl figure it out, it's the girl who's supposed to text and think about 'what's happening between us', not the other way around..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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