Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Alright, so there are a few hot chicks that work snowball place by my house. I was trying to think of something to say that wont take too long to get the point across since I wouldnt have much time. What should I say?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help on pickup
- Thread starter Paintballguy
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Let them know you're interested by telling them as much. "Hey, it's not a snowball stand, but this new place just opened up, really good food. I've been planning on going there a while and think you should keep me company when i go." Something along those lines - that's just the first thing that came to mind. If she says no, she'd have probably said no in any case. Oh, you might want to tone it down to only one or two of the girls... if you try DJing more than that, the odds are that one of them is going to tell another "Hey, this guy..." and she'll say "Wow, well that sounds like the same guy that..." and the others will all chime in with "WOW! He did that to us too!". Thus negating any chance you had with any of them - they'd see it as you asking every one of them out because you were desperate.
Good luck, and let us know how it goes. Try to take a pic of two also
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Good luck, and let us know how it goes. Try to take a pic of two also
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Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'll fill you in on what happens, thanks for the info. I'm trying to refine my approach for this weekend because I am going to the ocean with some friends. I plan on going up to every hot women I see on the boardwalk.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Update: The hot chick at the snowball stand wasnt working today so I'll try tomorrow. So anyways, I was at the gym today and noticed a new girl working (HB8). Of course I had to talk to her so I bought a drink so she would have to ring me up. I start some small talk about her job so on and so forth. Got some pretty good signs (she smiled when I did and caught her looking over). I asked her for her name and I'm gonna go for her number next time. I didn't want to rush getting her number too fast since I will definately see her again since I go to the gym almost everyday.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.