Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Alright, so there are a few hot chicks that work snowball place by my house. I was trying to think of something to say that wont take too long to get the point across since I wouldnt have much time. What should I say?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help on pickup
- Thread starter Paintballguy
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Let them know you're interested by telling them as much. "Hey, it's not a snowball stand, but this new place just opened up, really good food. I've been planning on going there a while and think you should keep me company when i go." Something along those lines - that's just the first thing that came to mind. If she says no, she'd have probably said no in any case. Oh, you might want to tone it down to only one or two of the girls... if you try DJing more than that, the odds are that one of them is going to tell another "Hey, this guy..." and she'll say "Wow, well that sounds like the same guy that..." and the others will all chime in with "WOW! He did that to us too!". Thus negating any chance you had with any of them - they'd see it as you asking every one of them out because you were desperate.
Good luck, and let us know how it goes. Try to take a pic of two also
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Good luck, and let us know how it goes. Try to take a pic of two also
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Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'll fill you in on what happens, thanks for the info. I'm trying to refine my approach for this weekend because I am going to the ocean with some friends. I plan on going up to every hot women I see on the boardwalk.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Update: The hot chick at the snowball stand wasnt working today so I'll try tomorrow. So anyways, I was at the gym today and noticed a new girl working (HB8). Of course I had to talk to her so I bought a drink so she would have to ring me up. I start some small talk about her job so on and so forth. Got some pretty good signs (she smiled when I did and caught her looking over). I asked her for her name and I'm gonna go for her number next time. I didn't want to rush getting her number too fast since I will definately see her again since I go to the gym almost everyday.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.