Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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actionjaxson

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for the OP you should cut your hair much shorter like a 1.5 or 2 all around. like how justin timberlake has it. the long hair makes you look like a nerd and fresh off the boat. if you had short hair you would look pretty attractive.

those glasses are terrible they look crooked and dont even sit straight on your face. are they broken or something? get new ones.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LaoRyuu-Des said:
where do you get your haircuts? you should go to a black barbershop so they can give you a nice lineup (you see how your hairline is all messed up?) and you should get it cut shorter. if you dont know what a line up/shape up is look at ushers hairline then look at yours http://urie.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/593-usher.jpg see the difference?

you look good but your clothes suck. not many girls like that style.
 

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Punisha said:
Now thats a good change. In 2 years you look like a different person

I could also use some tips. My face looks nice(except when,for some reason,i wake up and it looks like ive had acne for 3 months) but my hairstyle totally sucks. Ill try to get a picture soon.
Peace
My change in 2 years was gaining weight. I went on accutane to help with my acne. I shaped my eyebrows. I took better car of my skin. I whitened my teeth. I go running with my girlfriend 2-3 times per week and I feel good. Oh and proper amounts of sleep was a big factor towards my appearance. If I had a week where I had little sleep, I looked bad. Ugly skin, blah mindset, and overall not feeling top notch as when I had proper amounts of sleep and water.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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for the love of america, please lose the moustache..

Youd probably look good with a matador like hair style and some nice designer shades (no homo)
 
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