"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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help on appearance

actionjaxson

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for the OP you should cut your hair much shorter like a 1.5 or 2 all around. like how justin timberlake has it. the long hair makes you look like a nerd and fresh off the boat. if you had short hair you would look pretty attractive.

those glasses are terrible they look crooked and dont even sit straight on your face. are they broken or something? get new ones.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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actionjaxson

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LaoRyuu-Des said:
where do you get your haircuts? you should go to a black barbershop so they can give you a nice lineup (you see how your hairline is all messed up?) and you should get it cut shorter. if you dont know what a line up/shape up is look at ushers hairline then look at yours http://urie.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/593-usher.jpg see the difference?

you look good but your clothes suck. not many girls like that style.
 

ChapStick

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Punisha said:
Now thats a good change. In 2 years you look like a different person

I could also use some tips. My face looks nice(except when,for some reason,i wake up and it looks like ive had acne for 3 months) but my hairstyle totally sucks. Ill try to get a picture soon.
Peace
My change in 2 years was gaining weight. I went on accutane to help with my acne. I shaped my eyebrows. I took better car of my skin. I whitened my teeth. I go running with my girlfriend 2-3 times per week and I feel good. Oh and proper amounts of sleep was a big factor towards my appearance. If I had a week where I had little sleep, I looked bad. Ugly skin, blah mindset, and overall not feeling top notch as when I had proper amounts of sleep and water.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jdawgmcb

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for the love of america, please lose the moustache..

Youd probably look good with a matador like hair style and some nice designer shades (no homo)
 
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