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Don Juan
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- Apr 15, 2004
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ok here is the story...
Ive been out of the singles game for a long time.. I was with my last girlfriend for three years. We recently broke up, and im trying to adjust my life and way of thinking to the Dj methods. There is this chick, and ive fallen hard for her alredy. now i know that if i had a few others on the side her intentions wouldnt bother me so much, but because im still used to the one woman thing, i look deeply at everything she does.
What bothered me last night is that we were at a club having a good time... we did kiss, and i know she has feelings for me, but halfway throught our evening her friend who she came with starts raging me about ****... she said that if i dont tell this girl how i feel, bad things are going to happen, she asked why i dont show much interest in her when im with her, and why do i flirt with other chicks when she is around. Obviously anything i answer goes straight back to the chick. then she said that if i was "man enought" i would realise what i did wrong from a date we had a few nights before. she asked if i invited her out that night (yes) and that i must figure out what i did wrong. I left them for a few minutes to rack my brain, and the only thing i could think of was that i made her pay for her half of the bill. was that the wrong thing to do?? anyways, i go back and my chick is scoring some random dude... i was very upset, and i know i shouldnt be because she isnt even my gf.
I leave, and later I get a message on my phone saying she had a good night, and we will see eachother on saturday(house party).
i message her back saying i want to see her before that, and she is putting me off... am i being played?? where did I go wrong?? what should I do?? i dont want to lose her... any help please... thanks all
Ive been out of the singles game for a long time.. I was with my last girlfriend for three years. We recently broke up, and im trying to adjust my life and way of thinking to the Dj methods. There is this chick, and ive fallen hard for her alredy. now i know that if i had a few others on the side her intentions wouldnt bother me so much, but because im still used to the one woman thing, i look deeply at everything she does.
What bothered me last night is that we were at a club having a good time... we did kiss, and i know she has feelings for me, but halfway throught our evening her friend who she came with starts raging me about ****... she said that if i dont tell this girl how i feel, bad things are going to happen, she asked why i dont show much interest in her when im with her, and why do i flirt with other chicks when she is around. Obviously anything i answer goes straight back to the chick. then she said that if i was "man enought" i would realise what i did wrong from a date we had a few nights before. she asked if i invited her out that night (yes) and that i must figure out what i did wrong. I left them for a few minutes to rack my brain, and the only thing i could think of was that i made her pay for her half of the bill. was that the wrong thing to do?? anyways, i go back and my chick is scoring some random dude... i was very upset, and i know i shouldnt be because she isnt even my gf.
I leave, and later I get a message on my phone saying she had a good night, and we will see eachother on saturday(house party).
i message her back saying i want to see her before that, and she is putting me off... am i being played?? where did I go wrong?? what should I do?? i dont want to lose her... any help please... thanks all