mahoney said:
well you have to do what you think best but kinda an overreaction imo - i prefer to address a problem rather than get rid. people dont always word things just right when they are feeling emotional or stressed - 2/3 days of awkwardness into a 2 year relationship you're not prepared to see where she is with things?
i think you're being kind of melodramatic!
latest convo...
Her: i jus dont want us too control each other ne moree we know we want no one else but yet i get mad wen yu go out n yu dont trust me outtt.. i wanna b able to spend times with my friends without feeling like im doin something wronggg.. i hate that yu dont even make an attempt to get to kno my familyyy...
Me: is this bout not comming to ur moms thing?
Her: yah that does bug me even my mom n brother thinks yu dont care too get to kno themm n yu kno how close i am with my family.
ME: I was working...what was i supposed to do? nd this time wit ur friends, is this during weekends? wen its the only time we can see each other...iight cool...
HER: yah yu cud of came after workk nxt day n e thing yu jus made no attempt...no its not about not fixing us n hanging with my friends its about yuu try to damand me too comeee wen yu want
ME: on sunday how was i to get a hold u? u dont have internet, u didnt have fone...thats the reason u gave for not coming sunday..guess it applies both ways....when i asked, didnt YOU tell me u were coming? didnt u say that to the previous night? huh? I even asked u to comfirm nd u did...so wats this when i demand busness u could told me wen i asked u earlier that u didnt want to come nd wanted to be wit ur friends
if u dont believe look at fb convo we had before friday...i didnt demand anything, just simply held you to your word, then u give sum bull**** excuss for not comming...wat was i supposed to say? if u were about to come here nd I sent u dat...how wud u react?
Her: id b mad too sorry i went about this the wrong way.. i lov yu babe