"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help:My stomach is getting bigger

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Whats up everybody, well i have been working out for like a month and a half, and i have been eating 5-6 times a day, and the first 2 weeks i gained a lot of fat, since then i havent gain as much fat, but last week my stomach began to get big, and is not fat, what can i do to keep it flat?? is getting bigger and bigger

i think is because all the food i eat so i can bulk, but i dont eat junk food
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vacuums (exercise, not the floor cleaner)

I had this problem for a while, but then my waist started returning to normal. I was up to 33inches and now, I'm back down to 31.5. Just wait for a while, see what happens
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You're bloating from eating so much and not assimilating it. If you're not passing the extra crap, it'll hang out in your intestine and will give you a gut.
 

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how do you do vacuums?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Eat less processed foods and eat more of the natural stuff especially food with some fiber and be sure to drink a sufficient amount of water each day.
 

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I'll say one thing: do not confuse food/water/protein bloat with fat gain.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Warboss Alex said:
I'll say one thing: do not confuse food/water/protein bloat with fat gain.
I agree.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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