"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help:My stomach is getting bigger

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Whats up everybody, well i have been working out for like a month and a half, and i have been eating 5-6 times a day, and the first 2 weeks i gained a lot of fat, since then i havent gain as much fat, but last week my stomach began to get big, and is not fat, what can i do to keep it flat?? is getting bigger and bigger

i think is because all the food i eat so i can bulk, but i dont eat junk food
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skilla_Staz

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Vacuums (exercise, not the floor cleaner)

I had this problem for a while, but then my waist started returning to normal. I was up to 33inches and now, I'm back down to 31.5. Just wait for a while, see what happens
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You're bloating from eating so much and not assimilating it. If you're not passing the extra crap, it'll hang out in your intestine and will give you a gut.
 

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how do you do vacuums?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Eat less processed foods and eat more of the natural stuff especially food with some fiber and be sure to drink a sufficient amount of water each day.
 

Warboss Alex

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I'll say one thing: do not confuse food/water/protein bloat with fat gain.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Warboss Alex said:
I'll say one thing: do not confuse food/water/protein bloat with fat gain.
I agree.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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