"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help my gf wants to stay in Tn while I want to gtfo asap

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Her dream is to live in gasp Memphis which is a putrid **** hole to me or anywhere else in TN. I can pretty much get a job anywhere with my major, but most grads in my major end up in major cities like Atlanta, Charlotte, or Memphis due to not being too far from home. My preferences are Western USA, but I will stomach anything that's not the southeast lol. I've told her before that I was senior and that Tn was not in my plan of the future, but she got mad at me today because I rejected her dad's offer to work at his office as a financial analyst. I told her I'm leaving the southeast and I'm going to follow through with my goal. She has been passive aggressive since lol. I told her that she can just fly a plane to wherever I'm at, but she is hell bent in staying in Tennessee.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Then it's the end of the relationship.

Next her and pursue your dreams and goals.
 
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Ruler said:
Lozboss is right. You need to move on. Tell her if she's not willing to follow you, then that's the end of the relationship. If you really like her, say "I want you to come with me, but I will not change my dreams for you". She is NOT your first priority, keep that in mind.
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That's what I pretty much told her and she brought up the love bs.
 
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Dhoulmagus said:
That's what I pretty much told her and she brought up the love bs.
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Doesn't change your priorities.

NEXT her TODAY and move on with your life.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dhoulmagus said:
That's what I pretty much told her and she brought up the love bs.
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This is MANIPULATIVE. Clearly she is not high-quality, so do what you want. Even if she was high-quality, she would let you do what you want. So you see either way, you do what you want.

Coercion from a woman is a deal breaker (for me).
 
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