"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help my gf wants to stay in Tn while I want to gtfo asap

Dhoulmagus

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Her dream is to live in gasp Memphis which is a putrid **** hole to me or anywhere else in TN. I can pretty much get a job anywhere with my major, but most grads in my major end up in major cities like Atlanta, Charlotte, or Memphis due to not being too far from home. My preferences are Western USA, but I will stomach anything that's not the southeast lol. I've told her before that I was senior and that Tn was not in my plan of the future, but she got mad at me today because I rejected her dad's offer to work at his office as a financial analyst. I told her I'm leaving the southeast and I'm going to follow through with my goal. She has been passive aggressive since lol. I told her that she can just fly a plane to wherever I'm at, but she is hell bent in staying in Tennessee.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Then it's the end of the relationship.

Next her and pursue your dreams and goals.
 
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Lozboss is right. You need to move on. Tell her if she's not willing to follow you, then that's the end of the relationship. If you really like her, say "I want you to come with me, but I will not change my dreams for you". She is NOT your first priority, keep that in mind.
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That's what I pretty much told her and she brought up the love bs.
 
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Dhoulmagus said:
That's what I pretty much told her and she brought up the love bs.
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Doesn't change your priorities.

NEXT her TODAY and move on with your life.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dhoulmagus said:
That's what I pretty much told her and she brought up the love bs.
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This is MANIPULATIVE. Clearly she is not high-quality, so do what you want. Even if she was high-quality, she would let you do what you want. So you see either way, you do what you want.

Coercion from a woman is a deal breaker (for me).
 
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