"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help my foolish AFC friend!

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Ok, I have been trying to talk some sense into my buddy.

He has been going out with this girl for probably 3 weeks or so...he is getting laid by her but already he is giving her things. For instance, he gave her an extra Xbox he had and a pretty nice used t.v. set. He told me hey i dont use them, why not?

Am I wrong or is this going to look rather pathetic to the girl? What u guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, you said she's sleeping with him, so he's not being a total tool and doing her unrequitted favors. Those are some pretty expensive gifts though, and I do doubt that she earned them. It doesn't matter much though, because you can only go so far to convince someone else. Remember, DJ is your life philosophy, and AFC is his. Quoting the DJ bible to him is like quoting the Holy Bible to a Buddhist.
 
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Someone on this board told me do not shower them with gifts. The reward for her love is your love. The reward for her passion is your passion.
 
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Yup, its hard to talk sense into this guy. Anyways, yeah he is getting laid but still he is forming a bad habit. Also he tells me he wants a ltr with this girl, how do women interpret this behavior? Well they like him more or see him as a chump?
 
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if she really really likes him, his behavior will be irrelevant for the time being. She is still very excited that she's with a new person. Give it a few months and see how it progresses. Then he might be in some trouble.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If he's already getting laid, why would he bother trying to win her over more? He's already getting his dinky stinky, don't give her gifts!

Besides, giving away an Xbox to a chick? WTF man?! Send ME the damn xbox!
 
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Originally posted by italostud
If he's already getting laid, why would he bother trying to win her over more? He's already getting his dinky stinky, don't give her gifts!

Besides, giving away an Xbox to a chick? WTF man?! Send ME the damn xbox!
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Is it possible that maybe he is caring and was just fulifilling his charitable character and it just so happened his new girl was on the receiving end ?
 
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I would guess that it looks rather pathetic and weak to the woman. I mean, not even a month and she is getting some expensive stuff, used or new...doesnt really matter.
 
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You'e wasting your time - he'll have to learn much the same way many of us did.

Like someone said above, it's like your speaking a different language to them.
 
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