"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help! Meeting up with a NEXT! What do I do?

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Hey guys. In the very near future, I will probably be meeting up with a girl I NEXT'd (and some other friends) a few months back. Emotionally, I'm still a little tender and I just need some tips on how to handle myself so that things run as smoothly as possible?

thanks. ATH
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be cool and unaffected by her. Be your normal,nice[if you are] guy[except the hitting on her stuff]. If you act different than usual-she wins. Let her wonder why she has less effect on you than if you accidentally stepped on an ant.
 
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I'm sure it will all be ok baby. Maybe you can pretend you have a life and dont dwell on the past? Kind of like when you have a good time and dont give a phuck.
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Thanks. I needed that. Don't worry, one day I'll lose my soul too :up:

ATH
 
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AtillaTheHun said:
Hey guys. In the very near future, I will probably be meeting up with a girl I NEXT'd (and some other friends) a few months back. Emotionally, I'm still a little tender and I just need some tips on how to handle myself so that things run as smoothly as possible?

thanks. ATH
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Wait a second, you are going to revisit a girl that you "nexted" and you are emotionally a little tender about her?

Am I reading this right?

If YOU nexted her, shouldn't it mean that you are supposed to have the upper hand here?

Are we missing additional information or did you mean to say she "Nexted" you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe you can bring her a dozen roses, un-next her and make sweet passionate love in the back of your windowless van.:rolleyes:
 
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AtillaTheHun said:
Hey guys. In the very near future, I will probably be meeting up with a girl I NEXT'd (and some other friends) a few months back. Emotionally, I'm still a little tender and I just need some tips on how to handle myself so that things run as smoothly as possible?

thanks. ATH
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Well you're obviously a n00b, so you get pass on that emotionally tend bs lol.

If you're meeting up with her and you're still interested (which you obviously are), then make a move. If she accepts the move, then great. If not, you're in the same exact situation you're in right now lol. What's the worst that can happen?

JK
 
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Kailex said:
Wait a second, you are going to revisit a girl that you "nexted" and you are emotionally a little tender about her?

Am I reading this right?

If YOU nexted her, shouldn't it mean that you are supposed to have the upper hand here?

Are we missing additional information or did you mean to say she "Nexted" you?
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Yeah, let me clarify. Yes, I nexted her, and yes I have the upper hand here, but that doesn't mean I don't have feelings for her. It was hard for me to do this. (Yeah yeah, cry me a fukking river, but let let me have my moment dam it!)

If you're meeting up with her and you're still interested (which you obviously are), then make a move. If she accepts the move, then great. If not, you're in the same exact situation you're in right now lol. What's the worst that can happen?
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Interesting, I never really thought about it like that.

Thanks guys
 
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