"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Help! Meeting up with a NEXT! What do I do?

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Hey guys. In the very near future, I will probably be meeting up with a girl I NEXT'd (and some other friends) a few months back. Emotionally, I'm still a little tender and I just need some tips on how to handle myself so that things run as smoothly as possible?

thanks. ATH
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Be cool and unaffected by her. Be your normal,nice[if you are] guy[except the hitting on her stuff]. If you act different than usual-she wins. Let her wonder why she has less effect on you than if you accidentally stepped on an ant.
 
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I'm sure it will all be ok baby. Maybe you can pretend you have a life and dont dwell on the past? Kind of like when you have a good time and dont give a phuck.
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Thanks. I needed that. Don't worry, one day I'll lose my soul too :up:

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AtillaTheHun said:
Hey guys. In the very near future, I will probably be meeting up with a girl I NEXT'd (and some other friends) a few months back. Emotionally, I'm still a little tender and I just need some tips on how to handle myself so that things run as smoothly as possible?

thanks. ATH
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Wait a second, you are going to revisit a girl that you "nexted" and you are emotionally a little tender about her?

Am I reading this right?

If YOU nexted her, shouldn't it mean that you are supposed to have the upper hand here?

Are we missing additional information or did you mean to say she "Nexted" you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maybe you can bring her a dozen roses, un-next her and make sweet passionate love in the back of your windowless van.:rolleyes:
 
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AtillaTheHun said:
Hey guys. In the very near future, I will probably be meeting up with a girl I NEXT'd (and some other friends) a few months back. Emotionally, I'm still a little tender and I just need some tips on how to handle myself so that things run as smoothly as possible?

thanks. ATH
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Well you're obviously a n00b, so you get pass on that emotionally tend bs lol.

If you're meeting up with her and you're still interested (which you obviously are), then make a move. If she accepts the move, then great. If not, you're in the same exact situation you're in right now lol. What's the worst that can happen?

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Kailex said:
Wait a second, you are going to revisit a girl that you "nexted" and you are emotionally a little tender about her?

Am I reading this right?

If YOU nexted her, shouldn't it mean that you are supposed to have the upper hand here?

Are we missing additional information or did you mean to say she "Nexted" you?
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Yeah, let me clarify. Yes, I nexted her, and yes I have the upper hand here, but that doesn't mean I don't have feelings for her. It was hard for me to do this. (Yeah yeah, cry me a fukking river, but let let me have my moment dam it!)

If you're meeting up with her and you're still interested (which you obviously are), then make a move. If she accepts the move, then great. If not, you're in the same exact situation you're in right now lol. What's the worst that can happen?
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Interesting, I never really thought about it like that.

Thanks guys
 
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