You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm sure it will all be ok baby. Maybe you can pretend you have a life and dont dwell on the past? Kind of like when you have a good time and dont give a phuck.AtillaTheHun said:
Thanks. I needed that. Don't worry, one day I'll lose my soul too( . )( . ) said:
Wait a second, you are going to revisit a girl that you "nexted" and you are emotionally a little tender about her?AtillaTheHun said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well you're obviously a n00b, so you get pass on that emotionally tend bs lol.AtillaTheHun said:
Yeah, let me clarify. Yes, I nexted her, and yes I have the upper hand here, but that doesn't mean I don't have feelings for her. It was hard for me to do this. (Yeah yeah, cry me a fukking river, but let let me have my moment dam it!)Kailex said:
Interesting, I never really thought about it like that.