"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Their is this girl that keeps talking about how much she wants me. The thing is that she's dating other guys. I feel like I'm being used realy bad. What should I do????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Play cold and don't give her lots of attention and call her on her ****... If she is like "Oh I want you" say "Prove it or fvck off" or do it more polite but still strong.
 
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Sounds good. I'm going to try that one.
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The funny thing is you probably new the right thing to do. You just wanted 'to be sure.' Next time just do what your gut tells you.
 
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don't listen to what women say -- just look at what they do -- personally if woman says she likes me and is dating other men I see this as grave disrespect and the biatch is pulling your chain and seeing how far she can take you .

have some dignity and leave this girl alone -- she will respect much more --- trust me. Ignore her #ss and get other chicks and then when you are dating other chicks and she knows it - then you tell her the same shyt "I like you" and see how she takes it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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